Friday, August 6, 2010

Break Away!

Break up. A word every one who was or in love went through..

It's painful, full of tears, unpleasant, too many memories, every
songs makes you cry, every single detail reminds you of your past,
it becomes your benchmark for your next relationship and I can keep
going with the reasons. It's hard to admit that you were the cause of the break up
or hard to believe if you were the victim!

It's always sad and emotional. And you would just wanna go to a beach,
scream out as loud as possible.

So many things yet we can't fix the screw up. Should we say lesson
learned or should be blame ourselves!?

We wear our tears like jewelry. We always have our head held high even on our lowest day.

A man gives many question marks, however, a woman is a whole mystery...

But...

Have your last relationship drag you so much that you couldn't fix
your current ones?

Sunday, August 1, 2010

Multiple Choice Questions

Two friends of mine broke their hearts. A guy and a girl. Two different stories, two different hearts.
He told me “Guys always settle for one girl when dating but girls always have more than one option.” She told me likewise. I thought about it. IS that really happening?

Everyone has options when they are dating.
Good girls like bad boys. Good boys like bad girls. That’s not true. Good girls or boys, they just like all kinds and they just can’t decide enough.
Most of us have problems settling for one option. We are like MCQs. Multiple choice questions. We post a question to ourselves and keep a few options till we find the right answer.

Posting a question and making a few options is your issue. What if you are made to be an option for another person. Is it fair to you? Does that mean you only give 25% of what you've got? Should you step out or stay in and impress the person you are dating? Is waiting around to be picked a Good option?

What is the real deal of handling things?

Then again I’m not saying all girls/boys do this. Only a handful knows what they want.

Even if it was true, I think we always end up failing that particular question.

Question: Which Guy/girl do you feel is the right one for you?

But what happens when you choose the wrong option? Are we to be blamed for having more than one option?

What if Option B was the right answer?

Can Once In A Lifetime Happen Twice?

Find your reasons

Everyday in our busy lives we meet different people with different characters. Just like that, I met someone. Someone who values a relationship. Someone who have never been in one.

When I heard that words coming out from his mouth, I immediately had a million questions on my head. Suddenly everything stopped and I asked myself, how do I know if he is telling the truth. But its really hard to believe a guy ages 28 have never been on a relationship. Well who am I do judge? Maybe he haven’t seen a girl who makes his heart race like the bike ride I had recently after a year. or maybe he is just too picky. Talking about being picky, everyone is.. and everything else is a sign. If you read the signs well, it will guide you in the right direction.

They always say, everything else happens for a reason. Find your reason and read the sign. I am sure you will get a good answer. I am still finding for my reasons and answers.

Monday, July 26, 2010

Movie love or real love?

Finally its the weekend, but you don't feel like hitting the clubs. You just wanna wear you flip flops, khakis and head down with the girls for a chick flick. You see this romantic comedy and buy 3 tickets for the 930pm show only to know it's another movie from a guy Point of view.

Why do we always get the guy's point of view from a love story? What about the women? Don’t we feel love, can’t we confess love, or can’t we propose?? well not always, but the depth is never enough. But then again what has ever been enough for women?!!
well after the movie, we have this "talk" of how awesome or romantic that scene was.. bla bla bla!!!

Few things i always tell myself.. Thats never gonna happen in real life!!! so just get a chocolate bar and get over it and face the real world.

You know what movies can do to you, they leave you wondering, they leave you thinking there is one guy who is so dreamy out there. He is going to come and sweep you off the feet. But then again, come on, who are we kidding right?


Look, I know you think he was the one, but I don't. Now, I think you're just remembering the good stuff. Next time you look back, I, uh, I really think you should look again. Doesn’t mean you like the same stuff, he’s your soul mate. It happens differently. Love doesn’t just happen; When it happens It shows clearly. You will only know it happen after it happens; well maybe 5 day or 5 weeks later. Once in a while somebody comes along and makes you smile and just when you think everything is going great , you'll be weeping like a baby.

IM NOT AN EXPERT, IM JUST SHARING MY POINT OF VIEW.

To all my beautiful girlfriends, "When you walk out of you room this morning, make sure that WOMAN hate you, MEN want you and GAY MEN want to be YOU. If Life/Boys gives you shit, Play angry bird, go shoes shopping, Kick a ball, Tweet or give it back to them.

Popular line among men. "You are such a great and amazing person. Any guy who ends up with you should be lucky!!"

The question is "why Cant you be the guy?"

Start From Scratch

Every woman have a story to tell. In that story, there is a small dog, her best friend, the new heels she bought, the uncooked steak and not forgetting that lousy date she was on last Friday. Every single memory are detailed in her mind. We have a better storage than an Iphone. The mind defaults only when love virus attacks. Well i won't exactly say love, but the whole love, dating and whatever fancy term they have for relationship and men. The One and only problem which effects a woman.

It's funny how your mind can directly relate with your feelings and play the most contradictory game, The Mind Game, no one wants to play! Or is it has to do with that many complication which have been on our mind for years?!

Couldn't help but wonder, no matter how far u travel or how much u run from it, can you ever really escape whats on your mind??