Friday, August 6, 2010

Break Away!

Break up. A word every one who was or in love went through..

It's painful, full of tears, unpleasant, too many memories, every
songs makes you cry, every single detail reminds you of your past,
it becomes your benchmark for your next relationship and I can keep
going with the reasons. It's hard to admit that you were the cause of the break up
or hard to believe if you were the victim!

It's always sad and emotional. And you would just wanna go to a beach,
scream out as loud as possible.

So many things yet we can't fix the screw up. Should we say lesson
learned or should be blame ourselves!?

We wear our tears like jewelry. We always have our head held high even on our lowest day.

A man gives many question marks, however, a woman is a whole mystery...

But...

Have your last relationship drag you so much that you couldn't fix
your current ones?

Sunday, August 1, 2010

Multiple Choice Questions

Two friends of mine broke their hearts. A guy and a girl. Two different stories, two different hearts.
He told me “Guys always settle for one girl when dating but girls always have more than one option.” She told me likewise. I thought about it. IS that really happening?

Everyone has options when they are dating.
Good girls like bad boys. Good boys like bad girls. That’s not true. Good girls or boys, they just like all kinds and they just can’t decide enough.
Most of us have problems settling for one option. We are like MCQs. Multiple choice questions. We post a question to ourselves and keep a few options till we find the right answer.

Posting a question and making a few options is your issue. What if you are made to be an option for another person. Is it fair to you? Does that mean you only give 25% of what you've got? Should you step out or stay in and impress the person you are dating? Is waiting around to be picked a Good option?

What is the real deal of handling things?

Then again I’m not saying all girls/boys do this. Only a handful knows what they want.

Even if it was true, I think we always end up failing that particular question.

Question: Which Guy/girl do you feel is the right one for you?

But what happens when you choose the wrong option? Are we to be blamed for having more than one option?

What if Option B was the right answer?

Can Once In A Lifetime Happen Twice?

Find your reasons

Everyday in our busy lives we meet different people with different characters. Just like that, I met someone. Someone who values a relationship. Someone who have never been in one.

When I heard that words coming out from his mouth, I immediately had a million questions on my head. Suddenly everything stopped and I asked myself, how do I know if he is telling the truth. But its really hard to believe a guy ages 28 have never been on a relationship. Well who am I do judge? Maybe he haven’t seen a girl who makes his heart race like the bike ride I had recently after a year. or maybe he is just too picky. Talking about being picky, everyone is.. and everything else is a sign. If you read the signs well, it will guide you in the right direction.

They always say, everything else happens for a reason. Find your reason and read the sign. I am sure you will get a good answer. I am still finding for my reasons and answers.